Saturday, February 19, 2011

Made it!

Well, I survived the night hike!  It was really tough.  The first part of the hike was on a paved road, not too many hills.  The second half was on a gravel path, mainly going down hill.  The gravel was the pits.  My speed was O.K., I was about 300 feet behind the fast walkers and 200 feet ahead of the slow walkers, so no one but Bill heard me scream when I twisted my ankle. 

Also, I was recognized on the hike by a lawyer who saw my presentation.  Freaky! 


Friday, February 18, 2011

Never Say Never to Your Valentine

Well faithful readers, you may recall that I previously declared that I would never hike again.  I must now sheepishly report that it looks like I will hike again tonight. 

You see, I got an email from Bill's hiking club on Valentine's Day advertsing "an easy night hike" for tonight.  Because it was the day of love, and because I had not bought Bill a gift, I emailed the leader of the club.  He assured me that there was no uphill hiking and it would be for 3.5 kilometers max.  So, trying to be a good valentine, I told Bill that I would go tonight.

Because of the virus situation, we were not sure if we would actually go though.  Unfortunately, I mean, fortunately, because things seem to be going better for me, we decided to go for it late last night.

Wish me luck!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Extra! Extra! Read All About Me!

Well, I just got some exciting, yet hilarious, news.

As you may recall, I gave a short presentation last week about legal aid in the United States.  Well, unbeknownst to me, several Lebanese reporters were paying attention to my presentation.  Now I am listed as an "international legal expert" in about fifteen Lebanese newspapers.  Can you believe it?  I, for one, cannot and find this very funny!

Luckily, one of my friends at the office was kind enough to clue me in on this joke.  Fortunately, the papers are in Arabic, so I am not expecting to become an international sensation.  I would hate to have the paparazzi chasing me all the time when I get back to the U.S.

To see a copy of one of these articles, please see http://www.lebanonfiles.com/news_desc.php?id=217159.  Google has a translation function that should translate the article into English.

Monday, February 14, 2011

More on Women

Recently I had the opportunity to specifically examine how women are treated under Lebanese law.  Here is what I found (my friend translated for me):

Criminal Code

-Woman as Perpetrator:
*If a woman has an abortion, she faces six months to three years in prison. 
*Adultery: If a married woman commits adultery, she faces three months to two years in prison.  (The partner of the married woman faces the same penalty.)  But if a married man commits adultery, he faces one month to one year in jail.  (The partner of a married man gets the same penalty.)  Additionally, it is easier to prove that a woman committed adultery, and she can be convicted for adultery committed in or outside her home.  A man, on the other hand, can only be convicted if the adultery occurred in his home or if the affair is common knowledge.
-Woman as Victim:
*Honor Crimes against Women: The penalty for killing someone is usually 15 to 20 years in prison.  When a killing is done as an honor crime, the penalty is six months to five years in prison.  To qualify as an honor crime, either the defendant must be a husband, brother, uncle, male ancestor, or male descendant of the victim, or the victim must be the male involved in a “dishonorable” act with the defendant’s female relative.
*Defense of Marriage: Article 522 provides that a rapist, seducer, or kidnapper who marries his victim will not be punished for his crime.
-Absence of Legal Protection:
*There is no marital rape law.  In fact, Article 503 of the Penal Code, the provision concerning rape, expressly exempts people whose purported victim is his or her spouse.
*There is no domestic violence law.

Employment

-Article 7 excludes domestic and agricultural workers.  (A large percentage of this workforce is female, so the exclusion has a disparate impact on women.)
-Parts of the Labor Code regulate female employees like youth workers.
-Women cannot be judges in any religious court but the Anglican Court. 

Family Law/Personal Status

-Discrimination Based on Differences between the Sects (religions)[1]
*Ability to get a Divorce: For some women, the ability to get a divorce is nonexistent or greatly restricted because of her religion.
*Muslim women who divorce have a waiting period before they can remarry (the waiting period also applies when her husband dies).  Muslim men do not have a waiting period before they can remarry after divorce.
*Marrying Outside of One’s Religion: In Lebanon, it is very difficult for a woman to marry outside of her religion.  The Christian religions require non-Christians to convert to marry in their churches.  The Muslim religions allow Muslim men to marry non-Muslim women, but Muslim women are prohibited from marrying non-Muslim men.  It should be noted though that the Lebanese civil authority would recognize an interfaith marriage that occurred outside of Lebanon.
-In Lebanon, children have the religion of their father—a mother cannot pass her religion on to her children.
-Age of Consent to Marry: Females are generally allowed to marry at an earlier age than males.  -Child Custody: A woman’s ability to have custody of her children depends on her religion.  Most religions grant mothers custody until the children turn a certain age and this age differs depending on religion.

Inheritance

-Inheritance when there is not a will (intestate succession) is a very complicated issue in Lebanon.  Generally though for Muslims, men inherit a greater amount than women.  Christians tend to inherit equally. 
Nationality

-A Lebanese woman cannot pass her nationality on to her husband and children.  The children of a Lebanese man are Lebanese citizens.  The foreign wife of a Lebanese man can become Lebanese one year after she registers her marriage with the State.

Other

-Woman as Witness: In Muslim religious courts, the testimony of two women is equal to the testimony of one man.

Social Security and Pension Rights

-A woman cannot provide social security benefits for her unemployed husband unless she proves that he is incapacitated.  (An unemployed man whose wife is working can get social security if he is 60 or if he has a disability that prevents him from working.)  A man, however, can provide social security benefits for his unemployed wife.
-If a Muslim man has multiple wives, only his first wife can receive social security.  The second wife can receive social security if the first wife starts receiving her own social security, dies, or divorces her husband.
-Pensions:
*A widow who is receiving her deceased husband’s pension would no longer receive benefits if she remarried.  A widower who is receiving his deceased wife’s pension continues to receive benefits if he remarries. 
*If a man has multiple wives, they benefit from his pension equally.


[1] Lebanon allows each recognized religion to establish the laws that apply to certain aspects of its members’ lives.  For more information, please see my October 25, 2010 post discussing the personal status law.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

The Dangers of Jane Austen


Well, I am still suffering with my Turkey virus.  Today is day twelve.  Yes, I went to the hospital last week.  No, there is nothing that can be done medically to treat my affliction.  Consequently, I mostly stayed in bed today and watched movies—lots of them!

And for about eight hours, I watched adaptations of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice.  First, I watched Bride and Prejudice—a Bollywood-influenced delight.  If you haven’t seen it, and you like Pride and Prejudice, call in sick and rent this movie today!  (Better yet, just buy the movie so that you can enjoy it again and again.  I have seen it for sale at Target.  It is also available at Amazon.com.)

To watch the trailer, please see: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0361411/

I still had not had my Darcy-Elizabeth Bennett fix though after Bride and Prejudice, so I watched the BBC miniseries, Pride and Prejudice.  Yes, all SIX hours of it. 

·         For more information on the miniseries, please check out: www.bbc.co.uk/drama/prideandprejudice

If I had my Bridget Jones’s Diary DVD here, I am sure that I would have watched that too!  But alas, I had to move on to another favorite, Mr. Mom. 

Now that Bill has fallen asleep though, perhaps I will go back to Bride and Prejudice . . .

Friday, February 11, 2011

News

Sorry to the loyal readers who have been anxiously waiting for my next post.  I just haven’t felt like I have had anything to say.  But here is what’s been going on with me over the past two months:

Biggest News:  We finally had some visitors from the U.S.!

That’s right, Bill’s parents and sister, Anna, came to Lebanon for about three weeks.  Unfortunately, they arrived about three days after the “collapse” of the Lebanese Government.  They were also here for the “Day of Rage”—which luckily was not particularly unpleasant.  (It did, however, give me an occasion to call off work.  Some people get snow days, Americans in Lebanon get rage days.)  Luckily, however, Anna and the Ds turned out to be brave adventurers who did not let a little political instability get in the way of a good time. 

We had a really great time going around Lebanon with them.   Unfortunately, we were kind of cheap hosts, so we made them take the bus to most of our destinations—which also meant that we made them walk TEN blocks to the bus stop.  (Hey, who can balk at a 45 minute ride that is only $1.60 each way?)  You can see pictures of our travels at:

We also took Bill’s parents to Turkey.   Turkey was nice, but I caught a very nasty respiratory virus there.  And this leads me to my next bit of news . . .

To see Turkey pictures, please check out:

Worst News(?): I had to work the day after returning from Turkey.  And as I said, I picked up a nasty virus in Turkey. 

One of my friends at the office wanted to help me so she gave me some Lebanese cold medicine.  Before I took it, I verified with her that it was over the counter.  The Lebanese counter, however, is a little different from the American counter.  And after I had taken the medicine, I took a look at the wrapper—CODEINE PHOSPHATE! 

Some might be glad to score some free codeine, but not me.  I freak out when people near me smoke marijuana at a concert!  (My dad did a good job programming me not to use drugs.  I actually have a reoccurring nightmare that I decide to try drugs.  Yikes!)   So now I am worried that I, the most anti-drug person on the planet, would fail a drug test! 

"When I was in England, I experimented with marijuana a time or two, and I didn't like it.  I didn't inhale and never tried it again." –Bill Clinton

My official statement on this issue in case ever asked about it by the Press: “When I was in Lebanon, I took some cold medicine, and I didn’t like it.  I didn’t inhale and never took it again.”

Work News: Things are going pretty well at the office.  We have gotten some exciting research projects from the European Union and the World Bank.  (Who knew research could be exciting?)  Hopefully these projects will result in important reforms.

Today we also put on a seminar about the state of legal aid in Lebanon.  Yours truly gave a presentation on legal aid in the United States.  When I got back to the office, everyone clapped for me and told me I did a great job.  (Admittedly though, they are not the toughest crowd!)

Arabic News: I am still taking Arabic lessons.  Now that we are done with the letters, we are working on grammar.  So, while I am doing pretty well with grammar, I still can’t really say anything!  (Full disclosure, I typed “good” instead of “well” in the last sentence and the grammar check kicked on.  I guess my English grammar needs work!)

Teaching News: My English class for hospital employees has been on vacation for about a month.  We start back next week, so hopefully the students have been practicing . . .

Bill and I have also started helping a group of Palestinian high schoolers get ready for the S.A.T.  (Most of the colleges here use the S.A.T. as an entrance exam.)  My students are really great and amazing kids.  If I worked as hard as they do, I would either be a millionaire or a U.S. Supreme Court justice!

So that’s the news with me.  Thanks for reading!